Making a cake!
Hopefully it turns out well.
ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME?!
Yea it’s clearly our “generation that’s making homosexuality a trend.” Seriously, pisses me off when people say that. look at this! It’s always been around, it’s not a trend, it’s real. It’s beautiful.
These are really beautiful images.
History Lesson: In America from about 1700-1920 there was a social rule that said that women did not have a sex drive. According to men, all women ever were asexual and only ever had sex because their husbands wanted it and as a good doting wife they would open up for him. That said, lesbians flourished in this time! Because it was believed that women did not have sex, when two women would share a house and finances together (called a Boston Marriage, look it up!) nobody thought anything of it. Because clearly they werent homosexuals since clearly women were incapable of being independently sexual. The more you know!
Before tying up your partner/sub/bottom, be sure you’ve done your research on safety and bondage. I won’t go into it too much right now but here are the basics.
- Communicate with your partner and ask how their limbs are feeling. If they’re going numb then you’re cutting off circulation.
- You should be able to fit a finger between the rope and the skin. If you can’t then it’s too tight.
- Know how to undo your knots in case of emergencies. If you’re stuck with a knot that won’t budge, make sure you have scissors (or a knife) at hand.
- When doing ties like the dragonfly sleeve, do not yank at the arms and pull them back. Be gentle and do it gradually so you don’t strain the arms or the joints.
This is my first shibari tutorial so I apologize if it gets confusing at all. I drew in some arrows to help guide where the ropes should go, but if in doubt, please view the video above.
In the future, I’ll be working with bdsmgeek to create shibari tutorials. Hopefully they’ll be easier to understand.
so, my house just got broken into
and whoever it was stole a good couple thousand dollars worth of stuff
fucking cool. my day just got a whole lot shittier.
also, screw “Downey’s finest”. some help they are.
I REALLY NEED A HUG
and a face to punch
The Beatles - Long, Long, Long